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Do Bridesmaids Give Wedding Gifts?

Being asked to be a bridesmaid is a huge honor! It means the bride wants you by her side on one of the most important days of her life. But with that honor comes a few responsibilities—helping the bride with wedding planning, and, maybe, gifting the bride a present for some pre-wedding events as well. Below, we’ll cover the events where gifts would be a nice gesture, so you can set a gift budget that works for you.

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Wedding Gift-Giving Etiquette for Bridesmaids

As a bridesmaid, you’re already giving your time, energy, and likely some money to support the bride throughout the wedding process. But does this mean you’re off the hook for a wedding gift? Not exactly.

In North American culture, it’s customary for bridesmaids to give a wedding gift, but the financial strain of all the other wedding-related expenses should be considered. Because bridesmaids often spend on things like dresses, travel, and events, it’s perfectly acceptable for the wedding gift to be something thoughtful but not overly extravagant.

Related: Learn more about practical and meaningful gift ideas for the bride and groom here.

The Engagement Party

The engagement party is usually the first official celebration after the big proposal, and it’s a time to celebrate the couple’s decision to tie the knot. While not all bridesmaids will be required to attend, if you do attend, it’s polite to bring a small gift. Gifts at the engagement party are typically less expensive than wedding gifts and can include a bride’s cosmetic bag. This way, the bride will start planning for the wedding with something personalized.

Related: learn more about the do’s and don’ts you need to know about engagement party etiquette here.

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The Bachelorette Party

The bachelorette party is meant to be a fun, carefree celebration of the bride’s last days as a single woman. Bridesmaids are typically responsible for planning, organizing, and contributing financially to the party.

So, what about gifts? While gifts aren’t always required, they’ve become more common in recent years. Think fun, cheeky items that are more in the spirit of the event—personalized robes, party accessories, or even a silly gag gift that adds to the party vibe. These aren’t meant to be formal, high-end gifts, but rather something fun that adds to the celebration.

The Bridal Shower

The bridal shower is traditionally where guests shower the bride with gifts, and yes, bridesmaids are typically expected to bring a gift as well. However, the nature of the gift can vary depending on the type of shower. Is it a kitchen-themed shower? A spa day shower? Some showers might have specific themes that guide your gift choices.

Bridal shower gifts are usually separate from the wedding gifts, but they don’t have to be expensive. Many bridesmaids go for something from the bride’s registry that’s practical. If you’re feeling the financial squeeze, teaming up with other bridesmaids to get a bigger gift or doing something personal, like a memory book or handmade item, can be just as touching.

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Engagement Party Etiquette: The Do’s and Don’ts You Need to Know

Planning an engagement party is an exciting milestone in a couple’s journey toward marriage. It is a time to celebrate their love with family and friends, setting the tone for the upcoming wedding festivities. However, like any event, there are certain do’s and don’ts to consider to ensure the party is enjoyable, memorable, and respectful to everyone involved. In this month’s blog, we lay out the perfect engagement party etiquette to follow.

The Do’s

1. Set a Budget:

One of the first steps in planning an engagement party is setting a budget. Determine how much you’re willing to spend and stick to it. This will help guide your decisions regarding the venue, guest list, catering, and decorations. Remember, this is a celebration of your engagement, not a mini-wedding, so keep things simple and within your means.

2. Create a Guest List:

When creating your guest list, consider the size of the venue and your budget. It’s important to invite close family members and friends who have supported your relationship. Additionally, it’s generally expected that anyone invited to the engagement party will also be invited to the wedding. Make sure to communicate clearly if your wedding plans are still in the works and guest numbers are yet to be finalized.

3. Plan a Toast:

An engagement party is a great opportunity for the couple, or their parents, to express their gratitude and share their excitement. Plan a heartfelt toast to thank your guests for their support and to celebrate the love that brought you together. Keep it light, joyful, and focused on the future!

4. Thank Your Guests:

One of the most thoughtful ways to express gratitude to your guests for attending your engagement party is by sending a handwritten note or Thank You card. It shows that you took the time and effort to acknowledge their presence and contribution to your special day.

The Don’ts

1. Don’t Overplan:

An engagement party should be more relaxed than the wedding itself. Avoid overplanning or making the event too formal. The goal is to have fun and enjoy the company of your loved ones. Keep the atmosphere light, and don’t stress over every detail.

2. Don’t Expect Gifts:

While some guests may choose to bring gifts, it’s important not to expect them. Traditionally, engagement parties are more about celebrating the couple’s commitment than showering them with presents. If guests do bring gifts, make sure to express your gratitude and send thank-you notes afterward.

3. Don’t Rush It:

It’s tempting to celebrate your exciting news right away, but taking time to plan ensures the party will be well-organized and memorable. Rushing can lead to unnecessary stress, overlooked details, and a less-than-ideal experience for both you and your guests. Give yourselves a few weeks, or even months, to enjoy the engagement first.

An engagement party is the first of many celebrations leading up to your wedding. By following these do’s and don’ts, you can ensure that your party is a joyous occasion that everyone will remember fondly. Focus on the love you share and the excitement of what’s to come, and your engagement party will be a success!

Learn More

Design your very own wedding invitation by contacting Forever Friends. We have everything from invitation and envelope embellishments to reception and response cards. Let us fulfill your wishes when it comes to creating a unique and beautiful wedding invitation for your special day.

*Please call Forever Friends for an appointment at (516) 721-2635 or email us at hello@foreverfriendsinvitations.com today. We look forward to hearing from you soon!

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