Planning an engagement party is an exciting milestone in a couple’s journey toward marriage. It is a time to celebrate their love with family and friends, setting the tone for the upcoming wedding festivities. However, like any event, there are certain do’s and don’ts to consider to ensure the party is enjoyable, memorable, and respectful to everyone involved. In this month’s blog, we lay out the perfect engagement party etiquette to follow.
The Do’s
1. Set a Budget:
One of the first steps in planning an engagement party is setting a budget. Determine how much you’re willing to spend and stick to it. This will help guide your decisions regarding the venue, guest list, catering, and decorations. Remember, this is a celebration of your engagement, not a mini-wedding, so keep things simple and within your means.
2. Create a Guest List:
When creating your guest list, consider the size of the venue and your budget. It’s important to invite close family members and friends who have supported your relationship. Additionally, it’s generally expected that anyone invited to the engagement party will also be invited to the wedding. Make sure to communicate clearly if your wedding plans are still in the works and guest numbers are yet to be finalized.
3. Plan a Toast:
An engagement party is a great opportunity for the couple, or their parents, to express their gratitude and share their excitement. Plan a heartfelt toast to thank your guests for their support and to celebrate the love that brought you together. Keep it light, joyful, and focused on the future!
4. Thank Your Guests:
One of the most thoughtful ways to express gratitude to your guests for attending your engagement party is by sending a handwritten note or Thank You card. It shows that you took the time and effort to acknowledge their presence and contribution to your special day.
The Don’ts
1. Don’t Overplan:
An engagement party should be more relaxed than the wedding itself. Avoid overplanning or making the event too formal. The goal is to have fun and enjoy the company of your loved ones. Keep the atmosphere light, and don’t stress over every detail.
2. Don’t Expect Gifts:
While some guests may choose to bring gifts, it’s important not to expect them. Traditionally, engagement parties are more about celebrating the couple’s commitment than showering them with presents. If guests do bring gifts, make sure to express your gratitude and send thank-you notes afterward.
3. Don’t Rush It:
It’s tempting to celebrate your exciting news right away, but taking time to plan ensures the party will be well-organized and memorable. Rushing can lead to unnecessary stress, overlooked details, and a less-than-ideal experience for both you and your guests. Give yourselves a few weeks, or even months, to enjoy the engagement first.
An engagement party is the first of many celebrations leading up to your wedding. By following these do’s and don’ts, you can ensure that your party is a joyous occasion that everyone will remember fondly. Focus on the love you share and the excitement of what’s to come, and your engagement party will be a success!
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